Stop putting your trust in other people. When you give it away like that, they can do whatever they want with it. Keep your trust for yourself. Then it doesn’t matter what anyone else does because you can trust that YOU can handle it… and all is fine.
Giving it away blindly is how people get caught up feeling they can’t trust anyone anymore. Because they have given their own trust away to this guy, that friend, or that person. Keep giving it away and you have nothing left for yourself!